Question

Odpowiedz (po angielsku) w kilku zdaniach, jaki jest twój sposób na pozbycie się agresji i złości.

Answer 1

Hiding their intentions, pretending kindness for someone you do not like,you're not capable of sincerity towards that person.

You say you disagree with something, but you do not, because that reallydo not agree with that.

After quietly manipulating the situation to get what you want, but expressnon-conflicting opinions, to keep the peace.

Looking for revenge by breaking promises.

You tell others what they want to hear, even if you do not believe.

You try to please others, agreeing to their proposals, but they are followingdifferent.

Behave in accord with their feelings, but say something else.

The only way to discover your feelings is careful observation of yourbehavior, you can not trust your words.

Do not hate anyone, but prefer not to show it.

You feel that others are pushing on you, you do things you do not want to do.

You avoid conflict at all costs.

Often you feel angry, but do not show it; prefer to wait and quietly to take revenge.

Typical reactions to your passive aggression
When people experience your passive aggression most often are:
-surprised
-disappointed
-angry
-confused by your ambiguous messages
-aware that they lied
-frustrated by inconsistency of your behavior
-biased, you lose confidence
-offended by your dishonesty
-begin to play your game and eventually you're shooting in a circle,wounding each other

YOUR THOUGHTS
-I have to avoid arguments at all costs

-and so will never "win" any confrontation

-there is no point object to, they are stronger than me

-I have to please people, or tell them what they want to hear

-not eating well, showing the opening of my anger

-a good man is not angry

-no one cares how I feel

-no one understands how I feel

-my problems are unique, I have to hide them because no one understands.