Question

ANGIELSKI!

Coraz mniej młodych ludzi decyduje się na zawarcie małżeństwa przed trzydziestym rokiem życia. Napisz rozprawkę przedstawiającą wady i zalety zakładania rodziny w późniejszym wieku. Oczywiście w języku angielskim i nie z neta! :)

Answer 1

The fact that young people tend to wait till their 30s or even 40s with getting married is commonly know and becomes more popular amongst our society. Putting off this decision can be both benefitial and not for our entire life.

There are many things we can benefit from, while being a single. First to think about before getting married is, are we ready to give up our freedom. Singles are not bound to one person or place, which gives them the opportunity to do things they want and catch sudden occasions of e.c. getting a better paid job by a cost of moving into another city, or losing flexible working hours. They have also more time for their friends. One can go out to the cinema, bar or do some jogging with people he likes or wants to get to know. Having no permanent relationship gives also time for oneself. One can read a book learn foreign language or simply get some rest, which are things you will not necessarily have time for after getting married. The last aspect is that one can have as many partners as one wants and is not tied emotionally and physically so strong to one of them.

On the other hand, trying to set up a marriage or other kind of permanent relationship can be very difficult after years of being a lone star. One is not adjusted to giving up his freedom and friends in an exchange for another person's love. This could make our relationship unstable and likely to be broken. Also risk of giving a birth to a defected baby, or not being able to get pregnant at all incrases with each year after the age of 25. There is also the fact that people without anyone else to live for are less motivated in everyday work and duties, which makes them less efficient. A husband or wife, can be also problematic, because after few months of marriage we tend to see more drawbacks of a person and get angry at him/her much easier, which leads to frequent quarrels. If you are not used to it from early twenties, don't expect miracles.

All in all, nowadays people put carrier and freedom over a good relationship. But after reaching some goals and their friends not having much time for them because of their partners, they definitely will envy the friends somebody waiting for them at the house after job.